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    Vdaguy92
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    January 8, 2017 at 10:46 pm #122170
    For Asian Men

    How many of you are married to a white woman who’s older than you? that includes even literally a day to a few years. Also isn’t it still very possible to be married to your first girlfriend? Mind you I am an Asian guy who’s about to graduate college and is looking for a job and hopefully I get my first girlfriend this year. I really want to be with an older white woman.


    carlosescarlos
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    January 12, 2017 at 5:48 pm #122860

    As an Asian man who’s 25, I have only dated white women…mainly because I’ve never been attracted to an Asian woman before (I grew up in an almost all white neighborhood). It’s very possible to marry your first girlfriend, but I’d worry about getting your dates first. From my experience, most white women I encounter that want to date me have an Asian fetish. They have preconceived notions on how I act and what I like. I’m the complete opposite, and it throws them off, and I don’t get a follow-up date. Your goal to finding your wife is to find one who is not into Asians because they’re Asian; rather, ones who look beyond race and who are open to getting to know you as a man.


    Vdaguy92
    Participant
    January 16, 2017 at 5:47 pm #123225

    was she older. if so by how much.

    richiro
    richiro
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    January 18, 2017 at 10:01 pm #123600

    the chances of marrying your first girlfriend ever are extremely rare and slim. just the pure odds of it are slim if you consider there are billions of people you COULD date and have as a first gf.. what are the chances you get it right the first time? Usually zero.

    this is true of your first business.
    your first try at completing a mathematical formula
    your first try at ANY thing.

    so i would not try to make the foucs of your quest to “marry your 1st gf” no no no. instead. date. enjoy. have fun. get to know these gals. then marry the one you are most compatible with! it would be a huge mistake to try and force a marriage of the first person you ever date simply because that was a goal. marriage and relatinoship shoudl be about THE RELATIONSIHP and how you are together – not some predetermined arbitrary “formula” or goal.

    Good luck, relax, and enjoy. build it slowly – don’t be in such a rush and hurry! its about PEOPLE – not theorems and mission goals.

    richiro
    richiro
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    January 18, 2017 at 10:02 pm #123601

    oh and btw.. i’ve mostly dated white as well.. everything from much yougner to a bit older.
    i recently started dating asian gals again and am currently having one of my best relationsihps ever with a much younger mixed white/asian gal.