From sex to just friends.

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From sex to just friends.

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    tomfester
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    April 9, 2018 at 12:02 pm #169929
    From sex to just friends.

    So i met this girl about two months ago. we went on 2 dates and on the second date we kissed. there was a lot of chemistry between us, our personalities really fit together. since that second date we’ve seen eachother around 8 times. just casually chilling kissing a lot, and had sex once. but one day it all changed, she told me she wasn’t fully recovered from her past relationship which lasted 3 years and ended around 4 months ago. she really likes me and certainly doesnt wanna lose me, so she wanted to just remain friends for now. i did not really want this because i see so much potential in her and i’m not interested in a friendship alone. but i gave it a chance. last two times i saw her, there was no kissing and no sex which sucks. But there still is a lot of cuddling and teasing. we almost always have some sort of physical contact when we see eachother. it doesn’t feel like i’m getting friendzoned as i have been before. But i really don’t know what to make of this either…

    SatanicBacon
    SatanicBacon
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    April 14, 2018 at 3:06 pm #170560

    If i were you I would be respectful of her decision, as she may not want to date anyone just yet. Staying friends with her could either lead to a simple friendship, or she could feel ready to get more intimate with some time. Don’t try and push any flirting or anything intimate, because you could lose her both as a friend and potential partner.

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
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    April 14, 2018 at 5:01 pm #170566

    “…she wanted to just remain friends for now. i did not really want this…”

    There are only two ways to experience joy and peace of mind in relationships.
    We either get what we want or we learn to be happy with what we have.
    Accept them (as is) or move on. The choice is up to us.

    Truth be told you’re being a “fake friend” whenever you go along with a “friendship” while wanting something more.
    “…she really likes me and certainly doesn’t wanna lose me…”
    If (ifs) and (buts) were candy and nuts we’d all have a Merry Christmas!

    There’s no such thing as being “exclusive friends”. Find yourself someone who really wants to be with (you)!
    Whenever someone tells you they want to be “friends” what they’re really saying is: (I don’t see {you} as being “the one”)
    In a world with over 7 Billion people rejection just means: NEXT!