girl at work just seeking or attention or is she liking me?


girl at work just seeking or attention or is she liking me?

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    April 18, 2018 at 3:05 pm #170994
    girl at work just seeking or attention or is she liking me?

    I work in a restaurant. this restaurant is located in a mall.

    I like a girl at work since I actually work there (about a year). However, she then had a boyfriend. after about a month she started to talk to me more and more and we often smile at each other when we look at each other (something she also does behind the counter when I’m on the other side of the restaurant). a supervisor wants me to get a girlfriend and asked her if she wanted something with me. When that girl said if (my name) want then I want to. this is about 2 months back. She then asked for a Valentine gift a few times. However, I did not go into that and did not buy anything.
    a month ago I was about to make a burger and I did something wrong. then she rubbed my arm and asked if she could do it.
    The day before yesterday she said out of nowhere that two employees of the mall had told her that she should take something with me because we would be a good match because we are opposites. she no longer has a boyfriend here

    April 18, 2018 at 3:05 pm #170995


    Also yesterday I also sat on my phone and she came from the other side of the restaurant grabbed my arm and gave a tap on my fingers.

    Also the day before yesterday we were changing clothes and an elderly woman who works there whistled to me. then said that girl (my name) is allready my boyfriend.

    She also asked for a Valentine’s gift and wanted chocolate and a gift voucher from the mcdonalds. (I have already bought both) she doesnt know i got the mcdonalds gift card because we both thought that that wasnt available in my country but apparently it is.

    I had to sign a contract today and met her.

    she was behind the counter and she said I can not wait for Saturday.

    So I said I have the present i even have two presents

    then she said oh exciting I am curious.

    how do you guys think about this. does she just want attention or do you guys think she likes me? and i should ask her out

    April 19, 2018 at 4:49 pm #171126

    someone that can help me?

    April 20, 2018 at 5:06 am #171168

    Hey mate, it’s good you work with her that’s always better as you see each other regularly.

    I would say that she is liking you more over time. The next step really is to do something after work or whenever you both have time together, if this relationship only stays in the workplace nothing more can really come from it. You’ve got to at least hang out outside of work so you can get to know each other as people and not just colleagues

    Summers coming soon so i’m sure you’ve got lots of options 😉

    April 20, 2018 at 6:26 am #171170


    I think that she likes me to.
    but normally girls dont ask for gifts. and that rubbing arm thing was still at the time when she had a boyfriend.

    April 20, 2018 at 12:10 pm #171228

    1 more question. on the chocolate should i putt an paper with her name and a heart below it?

    April 27, 2018 at 10:06 am #171753


    Today i asked if asking gor the gift was just for the gift or for something behind it. She then said it was a joke. and she found it weird that i acctually bought something. but she was flattered that i had bought her something and she gave me a hug.

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