Girl didn't message me back or text me, will she? Do I wait?

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Girl didn't message me back or text me, will she? Do I wait?

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    stannis
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    September 21, 2015 at 8:44 pm #85664
    Girl didn't message me back or text me, will she? Do I wait?

    So, I went to a store today, I was looking around and I kept making eye contact with this really cute girl that works there, I made a joke, she laughed and we left. Anyway, I went back to buy something and I was talking to her, asked which product was best and I bought one. I decided to go back to get her number, but I also acted like I wanted to change my product, so we chatted for about 10 minutes and eventually I asked her what time she got off and if she wanted to go out sometime. She had been making direct eye-contact throughout the time I was there, laughing, etc. Anyway she was like, “I don’t know” and she said she didn’t know me so I said she could have my number and said she could text me, she smiled and accepted so I gave her it and left. I understand her decision, we had a nice exchange, but im just a random guy. Not 10 minutes later though she added me on Facebook and messaged me saying she’d like to go out and I seemed sweet. She read my response, but didn’t respond.


    stannis
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    September 21, 2015 at 8:46 pm #85665

    I messaged her saying food sometime would be great, and that when would she be free for the rebellious food thing. Will she text me? Was she trying to reject me nicely? Why not just take my number and not text me, why message me on fb? Did I wait to long to message her. She seemed to like me


    riguy321
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    September 24, 2015 at 1:05 am #85850

    I would just wait on it for now, she seemed interested but maybe the timing was off.. Or sometimes girls play games right at the beginning, When you are first going after a girl make sure you seem “busy”, so instead of saying “food sometime” say hey im going to be a “xyz” place with some friends, maybe you can join? Make it seem like you’re busy, but can sqeeze in sometime with her.. That is if she is playing games which it looks to be so. Good luck!


    Musical
    Participant
    September 24, 2015 at 6:02 pm #85914

    Whatever you do, don’t message her again unless she does so first. You don’t want to look desperate. Anyway, sometimes girls and guys just like the attention, and are not interested in what comes next. Be that as it may, the ball is definitely in her court. So don’t jump over the net.