Girl I met on Coffee Meets Bagel (dating app)

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Girl I met on Coffee Meets Bagel (dating app)

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    Foreveralone11
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    May 14, 2016 at 9:12 am #100396
    Girl I met on Coffee Meets Bagel (dating app)

    So I met this girl about 3 weeks ago and we started chatting daily on almost anything. I found out i really like her, so I’ve decided to ask her out on a date. She accepted it, so we went to a place for lunch. Everything was ok, we chatted and laughed and then we hanged around the shopping complex for a while before she has to meet up with her girlfriend to buy something. She’s been using this app for a few months and she told me she has also been asked out by a few different guys. She dated them a few times but decided they were a bit weird. I really like this girl and she knows I like her. I asked her if she has a boyfriend (no), if she intends to have a relationship (Umm…im trying to get to know more friends) and I told her that I have feelings for her. She said ‘i know, otherwise you wouldnt have dated me’ She said she will date me some other time again. Im just confused. Is she into me ? Or am I just one of her ‘pawns’ ? Im so frustrated that i have to play the waiting game.


    Foreveralone11
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    May 14, 2016 at 9:16 am #100397

    To add, this is actually the first girl I’m dating ever and I can say Im a novice and i tend to rush things a bit since I feel a bit lonely and insecure. Even when chatting on msgs, it takes her quite some time to reply to me so I can a bit uneasy as well. What should I do guys ? I’ve asked a few different friends and they actually asked me: Do i like this girl ? what do u like about her ?’ I mean……sometimes you cant really have an explanation to this sort of stuff right. The reason Im a bit insecure about this girl is that she seems quite a happy, bouncy person who is very open to meeting a lot of ppl, so I have a feeling she maybe seeing a few different guys at the same time. What the hell should i do ? God I suck at this stuff. I always fall into this love abyss and I will take a severely long time to get myself back up again.


    BrokenHeart
    Participant
    May 15, 2016 at 9:55 am #100435

    Hi foreveralone11,
    I’m going to be very honest & upfront with you. She is more than likely dating a few people simultaneously and is probably trying to feel out who she is most interested in to continue with. She could also very well be just looking for fun or a fling for now. She mentioned alot of her prior dates have gone awry for some reason or another and this could have possibly jaded her from pursuing anything too seriously. Women can be easily hurt and feel rejected over many things; she could be feeling like this right now. You didn’t mention how often you communicate and keep in touch. For now, keep doing what you’re doing- texting, calling, etc. to show your seriously interested. If she is reciprocating, take that as positive signs, however don’t hold your breath over this one. She knows how you feel and could be keeping you on as a backburner. In the meantime, you need to date other women as well and take that app for full advantage! There are lots of others out there!