Girl I really like sending some mixed signals

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Girl I really like sending some mixed signals

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    billyfordson
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    December 4, 2017 at 4:12 pm #158509
    Girl I really like sending some mixed signals

    Hey guys,

    So I met this girl a week ago at an social event. We chatted for a while, good conversation,. We went out for a beer with a few more people. She ended up sitting on the opposite end of the table, but our eyes locked a few times and I noticed she laughed hard at a funny facial expression I had when a couple guys were locked in an intense discussion over something trivial. Walking home from the pub, I checked her out on Facebook and realized I knew her brother. So I messaged her on Facebook and we both thought it was quite a funny coincidence. The next day, *she* added me as a friend.

    She is much younger than me (21 <-> 30), but seems very mature for her age. I have to admit that I could fall really hard for her.

    A couple days later, I went to a theatre play with a (guy) friend a realized she was playing in it. Amusing surprise! And she was great at it too…

    Fast forward a few days later when we had another event we both attended. We ended up chatting together, just the 2 of


    billyfordson
    Participant
    December 4, 2017 at 4:13 pm #158510

    us, for about an hour. I can’t begin to list everything we covered as it was pretty fast-paced. But we talked about some mutual interests, I asked her about her studies. She’s studying art and joked about the fact that they have a lot of pornography to look at. It seemed like not really the thing you would mention to a guy you don’t know very well… She mentioned she was very sensitive and had some confidence issues. I told her I saw her in the play and she responded with ‘Oh God! You saw me wearing those ugly pants’. She also offered a trove of information about what she likes, doesn’t like, what she does, and so on. I don’t know, it maybe felt like she was either trying to impress me with everything she’s doing or maybe she was just trying to make conversation. Every time she said something, she would start by looking at me, and then she would look the sides, sometimes placing her back against the wall, looking away, while I kept facing her for a few seconds, then finally turned back


    penpal99
    Participant
    December 4, 2017 at 5:23 pm #158537

    She likes you, but is a little intimidated by you that’s all, she’s worried she will say something wrong and scare you away and definitely doesn’t want you to notice how much she is attracted to you


    billyfordson
    Participant
    December 5, 2017 at 8:45 am #158511

    and looked at me again. I was not sure how to interpret that. I gave her a couple opportunities to take off if she wanted, but she stayed. At some point, she mentioned her ex, but accidentally revealed her ex was a girl. Apparently a relationship that lasted a couple of months. Before that, I am pretty sure she dated guys. Anyways, I played it cool and that did not kill the conversation. Instead it moved the tone to a slightly more personal level, and we kept on chatting for a good 10-15 minutes. Eventually, a friend of hers cut in as the event was finishing and we said bye.

    Now I’m supposed to see her again in a couple days at yet another event. I am a little confused with the mixed signals. It seems she likes me, but maybe not in a romantic way. I don’t think I have been friendzoned since I observed her with a male friend and there was a pretty big difference. I take no issue with the fact that her last relationship was with a girl. Maybe she’s now fully into girls, maybe that was a


    billyfordson
    Participant
    December 5, 2017 at 8:49 am #158512

    and looked at me again. I was not sure how to interpret that. I gave her a couple opportunities to take off if she wanted, but she stayed. At some point, she mentioned her ex, but accidentally revealed her ex was a girl. Apparently a relationship that lasted a couple of months. Before that, I am pretty sure she dated guys. Anyways, I played it cool and that did not kill the conversation. Instead it moved the tone to a slightly more personal level, and we kept on chatting for a good 10-15 minutes. Eventually, a friend of hers cut in as the event was finishing and we said bye.


    Louis Richards
    Participant
    December 5, 2017 at 3:21 pm #159123

    She likes you, but is a little intimidated by you that’s all, she’s worried she will say something wrong and scare you away and definitely doesn’t want you to notice how much she is attracted to you

    true


    Manuel Casido
    Participant
    December 6, 2017 at 10:27 am #159232

    Easy


    backinthepool
    Participant
    December 6, 2017 at 1:01 pm #159254

    Depends on what you are after I think. If you are interested in a real relationship, then friends is a fine start. Neither of you are in high school, if you can’t be friends no romance is going to last. So don’t worry about that. If she thinks she can’t be romantic with someone she also likes as a friend, run away.


    jonnyb7283
    Participant
    December 6, 2017 at 9:21 pm #159310

    Yup the guys are right.