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girl talks to me then ignores me?

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    secret123789
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    July 9, 2014 at 1:38 am #56974
    girl talks to me then ignores me?

    There is this asian girl who is from Shenzhen china and we’ve talked about 2-3 weeks and she recently graduated from a university . So I congratulated and we havent talked about 3days or so so we talked about what we did durings those 3 days and i told her about a scorpion was crawling on my stomach and how I got rid of it then when it was her turn to tell her story she said very little and I asked her nicely to please give more details since I qas curious after that she got quiet and I apologized if I was asking for too much or I offended you in anyway and after a while she said im working and I apologized again if I was distracting you from work which I have no idea what her shifts are. But after that when I try talking to her she only sees my messages from the website tells me but she doesnt reply anymore. So even now I send her a message she will see it but wont reply so I am puzzled at this point and I really wanted to know more about her.

    MrSSamsung
    MrSSamsung
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    November 18, 2014 at 4:40 pm #67738

    Each relationship formed online is very disposable, due to the little investment and the distance between the two people. I’ve had loads and loads and loads and loads and loads…. and loads of women do that to me. I even had one we were chatting every single day for 6 months (3 or 4 times a day)… we even Skype a number of times face to face too. Eventually, it just died out. By that point it was a’little late to break off though… so we still do keep in distant infrequent contact. She has a boyfriend now and she’s from another country too.

    Never apologize unless you’ve done something badly wrong. Women, sadly, see it as a sign of weakness and get turned off very quickly. My approach is routine: if I don’t get a message within 1 week, or if I get a sorry I’ve been busy or any other excuse… it means she doesn’t want to pursue things… I block her from all contact methods. This is because then I know she wont be contacting me, so I can let her go… focus on the next one.

    MrSSamsung
    MrSSamsung
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    November 18, 2014 at 5:09 pm #67740

    … oh, and also its best not to shoot them another message until they have replied to your last one (a golden rule).