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    matty145
    Participant
    October 28, 2017 at 9:34 am #154352
    Girl text

    So this girl I’ve been hanging out with lately just texted me this last night.

    Me: I thought we had fun

    Her: Yeah I did too but honestly I’m afraid to get attached or anything because always turns out bad for me in the long run

    What do I say to this and how do I play this situation? She texted me this last night.


    Dayzer
    Participant
    October 28, 2017 at 9:44 am #154354

    Perhaps encourage taking things slow — any attempt to rush into a relationship with this person will probably make them feel stressed. If you two enjoy spending time with one another then just keep doing that, but don’t force anything to happen. If she’s had poor experiences in the past then you need to make her feel comfortable with you.


    matty145
    Participant
    October 28, 2017 at 10:25 am #154358

    What’s a good text I can send her back?


    lost101
    Participant
    October 28, 2017 at 9:08 pm #154371

    you could reply: I totally understand where you come from, I don’t want to see you get hurt, so maybe we could take things slow? However I’d love to see you again [insert date]¬†maybe?


    10023711
    Participant
    October 29, 2017 at 1:18 pm #154391

    If you agree with her statement, it will make her want you even more.


    Sushimelody
    Participant
    October 30, 2017 at 2:22 pm #154482

    I might be too late with this reply, but i agree with lost101’s response. If she’s afraid to be attached and you are seriously interested in her then reply that you are ok with taking things slow and make sure you show her that things won’t become bad between you two. I was in a similar situation, my ex was afraid to date due to a bad previous relationship but in the end I played things slow and it took 6 months before we started going out.

    Best of luck!


    backupPv2
    Participant
    October 30, 2017 at 7:15 pm #154560

    I agree, tell you’ll take things slow

    lovequestion
    lovequestion
    Participant
    October 31, 2017 at 9:29 am #154590

    I would say something like this: “Hey. I had a great time. Listen, it sounds like you are not ready right now, but if you change your mind, give me a call.” Then, don’t contact her. After a couple of days she is going to be thinking about you and if she is interested, she will contact you.