Girlfriend has trust/jealousy issues or am I the one with the Issue?

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Girlfriend has trust/jealousy issues or am I the one with the Issue?

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    guywithgirlproblems
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    May 2, 2015 at 6:02 pm #78337
    Girlfriend has trust/jealousy issues or am I the one with the Issue?

    I went to a store to buy a product for my boat. The saleswoman was there with a salesman doing a demo on the product. I was skeptical it would work but there was a deal on the product only for that day. She said that she would be willing to take my number and I could text her if the product worked and she’d set it aside for me but had to call before 9pm (store hours). Product did work and I sent her a message to set aside the other two products and id pick it up the next day. At this point she asked me out. I told her I had a gf and could not. I relayed this story to my gf and she got really really upset at me. She said she could not believe I was so stupid to give my number and I could not do it again. That I was disrespecting her. I apologized she was upset but explained it was innocent(not like I gave my number for no reason). Im not dumb, the woman gave no indication she was doing anything but help. I feel she is controlling and untrusting, I am loyal and told my gf.Thoughts?


    guywithgirlproblems
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    May 2, 2015 at 6:17 pm #78338

    More to it. I tried to explain that this request is unrealistic in my opinion. If I go to a sushi restaurant and there is a woman working there and asks me for my number to enter into the system, I am supposed to be able to determine if she has a crush on me and not give it? I feel like I am expected to be a psychic and somehow be able to predict if someone likes me? I don’t want to walk around everytime I walk in to a shop or store or restaurant and feel like I am doing something wrong. I feel this is more about her than me and her past relationship issues (she was cheated on by several ex boyfriends).

    What should I do?