Girlfriend not into my child

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Girlfriend not into my child

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    rlarson87
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    June 7, 2016 at 10:21 am #102345
    Girlfriend not into my child

    Hi, looking for any help! I’m in a long distance relationship (Denver & Toronto). I have been seeing this girl for about 9 months now. It is a bit complicated…basically a few months ago she found out I was married and had a daughter. I do want to be with her and I am now going thru the divorce process to clean that up. All of this has been pretty traumatizing for her and she has said my daughter is a “deal breaker” because it would be a constant reminder that I was in a previous marriage. She also feels like she is making me decide between her or my daughter.

    I have told her my expectation is just to date right now…not for her to be a mother figure or anything like that. She is open to talking about a way it might work to date and see how it goes. I think it’s worth at least trying to make sure we both don’t have any regrets later on. And, who knows, perhaps her opinion will change about my daughter…

    Need advice on positioning for our talk so she gives me a shot!! Thanks!