Girlfriend still talks to guy she dated recently..

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Girlfriend still talks to guy she dated recently..

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    anonymousjay
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    August 22, 2015 at 6:37 pm #84569
    Girlfriend still talks to guy she dated recently..

    I have been dating my girlfriend for three months and she is the most amazing person I have ever been with. The only thing that bugs me about her is that she still talks to a guy that she dated months before me who still likes her, and he was the closest thing to a boyfriend that she had before me. I am her first boyfriend, she is 19 I am 21. She knows it makes me uncomfortable, and even texts him when she is with me. I told her recently that I think he still likes her and she asked him, and when he said yes she set him straight and told him nothing will ever happen between them. It seems that they are talking more now even after she had the convo with him. Ideally, I want her to stop talking to him, but I know that the more I push the more I push her away from me, and closer to him. Im thinking I should just ride it out, and see if he fades from the picture. She refuses every time he asks to hangout, but from past relationships, this situation still makes me anxious. Thoughts?


    spiderjohn420
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    August 24, 2015 at 4:15 am #84605

    Well, I understand your concern, but I believe there is probably nothing to worry about. She has not attempted to hide those text messages from you, as well as told you they still talk. I wouldn’t let it get to you. Plus, if you continue to push this issue, it will make you look insecure and less attractive to her in the long run. Finally, she may get the impression you are the jealous type if you continue to behave this way so early in the relationship. Show her you are confident rather than insecure and jealous.