Giving me mixed signals! Help!

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Giving me mixed signals! Help!

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    Jgirl
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    December 6, 2016 at 10:06 pm #119299
    Giving me mixed signals! Help!

    Me and this guy have known each other for a couple months now. We always flirt back and forth. He always teasing me about taking me out. But then the other day he mentioned he had a friend he wanted to hook me up with! I’m was soooo confused! And then the next minute flirting with me again! I kinda just shook it off as maybe he was just testing me to see if I would go out with a different guy. Then he brought him to met me and he just flirted with me the whole time. Then he came to me and said hey I tried to hook up the other day and was like if you want to go out with him just tell me I’ll give you his number. I’m so confused! I really felt like this guy liked me! All of friends say they think his testing me to see if I like him or not. But I don’t know!!!


    CookieCat
    Participant
    December 10, 2016 at 4:36 am #119684

    Well, how old are you and this guy?

    Of course he’s trying to understand if you are interested or not, but in a childish way.

    You should ask him directly and tell him that you like him. You have to do something, because since he’s immature, he won’t.


    OpenMan1997
    Participant
    December 12, 2016 at 9:20 am #119609

    If you want to be with guy #1 you should take the inititive and go after him instead of letting him hook you up with someone else.


    izziebusy
    Participant
    December 12, 2016 at 12:48 pm #119799

    How was he flirting with you out of interest? Some people have very personable and flirty personalities, I experiences something similar!


    Busybee33
    Participant
    December 12, 2016 at 8:43 pm #119897

    Not really mixed, it’s more annoying and childish. If you like guy #1, ask him out, and if he keeps trying to hook you up with other people, then maybe he just likes flirting with you. If he joked about asking you out, but hasn’t and keeps tip-toeing around it, take the initiative. maybe it’ll wake him up. I’m not sure how he’s flirting with you, but it could be friendly banter to him. so if you like him and are sick of waiting, ask him for coffee.