Good first message openers

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Good first message openers

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    hundtington
    hundtington
    Participant
    December 21, 2012 at 10:15 am #19294
    Good first message openers

    I saw a girl online with really nice pictures and noticed she played guitar like me so I messaged her this:

    “Hey I saw you play a Fender Strat from your pictures. I also own a Fender, but I’m fairly new at it. What kind of music do you like to play?”

    Think that was any good?


    HMCali
    Participant
    December 24, 2012 at 12:08 pm #19449

    I think that’s pretty good actually. Not too strong, but expresses interest in her and her hobby. Well done!


    Anonymous
    December 26, 2012 at 9:40 pm #19466

    yes i think that was a pretty good opener, let us know what she says

    hundtington
    hundtington
    Participant
    December 27, 2012 at 12:22 pm #19510

    Worked out great, haha. She mentioned later on how she always gets crude messages to her profile so I’m glad I was honest and pretty carefree about it. We’ve exchanged numbers and plan on meeting after the holidays.


    harrytimes
    Participant
    December 28, 2012 at 11:05 am #19638

    I agree, that’s a great way to open conversation. A girl likes a compliment and a a question about something she has an interest in because she’s willing to explain it.