Got dumped, heartbroken and I know I should stop talking to him ..ugh..

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Got dumped, heartbroken and I know I should stop talking to him ..ugh..

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    justwondering0
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    March 5, 2016 at 6:04 am #95030
    Got dumped, heartbroken and I know I should stop talking to him ..ugh..

    It seems the older I get the messier relationships get. Okay, seriously though I am heart broken. My ex broke up with me and i was so out of the loop that I had no idea he had issues. yes we talked but apparently not enough I am finding out. I keep answering his calls and texts ( he apparently he is staying in contact) and he is supposed to drop my things i need off back to me. I know I should just stop answering his messages and calls from him but it is so hard. Just last night he was eating at his fav. pizza place after helping with an emergency. So I told him, hopefully one day I will visit that place as pizza is my weakness. He said “maybe you will, their pizza is the best in town”. You know what i ended up doing– over analyzing “maybe you will” and thinking does that mean he will take me? …so… I know what I need to do, cut him off. It is just, very hard because of how my heart hurts right now.

    laura
    laura
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    March 5, 2016 at 9:54 pm #95042

    Maybe you should move forward…there is a wonderful guy out there waiting for you….Yes, it is very hard, time consuming, and sometimes heart breaking to weed through the ‘not mean to be ones’.
    I say this b/c if he broke up with you, then he most likely feels you are not the one for him….he is probably keeping you on a string b/c he does not have anyone else in the picture right now…and when he does, the calls and texts will stop. If you sit home and wait for his texts and calls, he will only be controlling you. You deserve better than that!!!
    So, chin up, get dressed up and go out with your girlfriends and have fun!


    dodsferd
    Participant
    March 5, 2016 at 11:56 pm #95055

    The best remedy: delete any fotos that remind you of him, stop visiting places where you both used to hang out…go see your family, close friends and spend some time with them.when you see different people you start forgetting …its normal and don’t be heart broken.best luck


    justwondering0
    Participant
    March 6, 2016 at 8:05 pm #95084

    yup..I already deleted all his info and pictures .. on to the next


    justwondering0
    Participant
    March 6, 2016 at 11:56 pm #95095

    ***UPDATE***
    So, right when I am “cleansing” myself from my ex. He sends me a text message saying that he would like to take me out to a restaurant real soon to go and eat. He called me as usual and wanted to talk ( have not returned the call yet). So, I think I will go to dinner with him and see what he wants. If nothing comes from it, then I am going to tell him to leave me a lone for good in person.

    Probably not the best idea but he did ask me out and I do miss him. *shrugs*