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    bella2550
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    May 5, 2016 at 10:21 pm #99888
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    This guy i have a crush on and i used to stay up until after 1 am texting. I thought we were building something good, we flirted and joked around and shared stuff about ourselves that was personal. One day he stopped texting me and i couldnt figure out why. I saw him at school and he would look away and ignore me. Eventually i came out and asked him what his problem was and he said nothing so i dropped it. The next time i texted him it was a joke to see if we were still, well, the same. His response was “will you go to prom with me”. Me being the sarcastic person i am i thought he was joking. He started saying stuff he never used to say like saying how we should have smash after prom and we should get high, stuff like that. I had talked to him about that stuff before and he knew that im uncomfortable with that… Anyway we argued, i asked why he would prank me, blah blah. I just recently found out that at around the he stopped texting me my sister had sex with one of his friends.


    bella2550
    Participant
    May 5, 2016 at 10:27 pm #99889

    Sorry this is a long story. Anyway, my sister and i look a lot alike and looking back at that convo the timeline and comments he made correlate with my sisters situation. The reason this idea even popped into my head is because he made a sexual gesture toward my sister at school. He could think that she is me or whoever she slept with could use our last name to refer to her and being that the guy she slept with and i are the same age it is more likely that i wouldve slept with him. What do i do next? I cant get this guy off my mind. We left things in a bad place last time, should i apologize and see where that goes? I dont even know if he was joking about prom or not, he never admitted he was. I a, so lost.

    the_fella
    the_fella
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    May 9, 2016 at 4:26 pm #100016

    I think you maybe overthinking it too much. Give it some time and see what happens.