Guy I really liked asked me to hook up and…?

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Guy I really liked asked me to hook up and…?

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    selenagaldamez
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    February 6, 2016 at 12:17 am #93061
    Guy I really liked asked me to hook up and…?

    I got back in touch with an old classmate after seeing him working at a place I always hangout. A few months later he texted for like 5 days & I was hopeful cause I used to really like him. He said had to have a crush and that I was hot. Then all of the sudden he asked me if I was down to mess around for fun. I said I think he’s hot but no. And he said i hope I didn’t offend you. I said I’m frustrated, but glad he was straight up and didn’t lead me on but that I wanted a bf not a fuck buddy. He said he just got out of a relationship and he’s not ready. I said me neither just saying. Then he was like “I had a crush on you when I was In a relationship” which really pissed me off. Then he said he’s lonely & liked the idea of my company, wanted to put it out there “innocently”.
    I’m really hurt and mad. Haven’t replied to his last text. What do yo think?


    laburnum
    Participant
    February 6, 2016 at 7:28 pm #93072

    Do not engage!! I know you want validation and it’s tempting to think more of him but if he thinks youre hot then he will say anything to get in your pants.


    andy_1985
    Participant
    February 6, 2016 at 7:59 pm #93075

    Yeah, do not engage. He is after a post break up fling.