Guys. Is it normal or is he getting too attached

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Guys. Is it normal or is he getting too attached

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    katrina26
    katrina26
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    March 22, 2013 at 7:41 am #26654
    Guys. Is it normal or is he getting too attached

    Some of you might have read my other posts and should know what im talking about. I started talking to this guy around march 1. I used to know him before but the only thing he used to do was bother me and make fun of me. He told me he did because he likes me. Bottom line is that we have been talking since then everyday and can’t seem to get tired of each other. Our conversations flow and we joke around a lot. We went out on a first date and it went well after that he asked me if I liked him because if I didn’t he was going to leave me alone. I told him I liked him. The second date comes and we went ice skating. We went to a place that are a bunch of boats and had our first kiss titanic version. After the date we went to have coffee and he dropped me at my home. The cool thing is that he told me he was not going to go inside my apartment just to bother me but he ended up meeting my family on the second date. After the date he told me he really enjoyed being with me and that he loves kissing me and holding me and that he is taking me serious. And i asked him how? and he told me i should feel it by the way he treats me and hold me and that if he wasn’t serious about me he wouldn’t have met my family past week he has become pretty romantic and caring and tells me how he wants to hold me and cuddle with me. And telling me he would like that someday we take trips together. He also told me his mom knows he is dating me and wants to take me to his home. So what do you think about it is this too fast? Or normal ? Ohh he also told me he liked me since back in November when he met me but was afraid to tell me.


    bob the brave
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    March 26, 2013 at 9:36 am #26815

    Whoa!!!….TOO FAST. What ever either of you feels is just that. That can change at any moment. There is no way to know someone in that amount of time. It is a common mistake among people who have not have a lot of dates to sometimes emotionally vest too soon in who the THINK or WANT to BELIEVE the other person is or what they could mean to them. We have all been guilty of this at some time. Just relax, go slow and let things develope in real time.