He arranged 2nd Date then went quiet, is it still on Guys?

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He arranged 2nd Date then went quiet, is it still on Guys?

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    barbs
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    May 16, 2016 at 2:50 pm #100516
    He arranged 2nd Date then went quiet, is it still on Guys?

    So I met a guy on tinder messaged two or three times a day got on and went on a date! Date was brilliant we got on well and halfway through he ask me for second date! The day after our date he was going abroad for a week but he was keen to book our date in and booked me up for the day he gets home (promising I thought) date continued as amazing when we were leaving we had a little kiss and again he mentioned our second date time/date.

    30 mins after I date I get s text saying thanks for letting me take you out I had a great time! I responded that I really enjoyed it and was looking forward to seeing him next week.
    So the next day (fri) he goes off abroad and I don’t hear anything…. Fine he is traveling etc.
    The next day I just whatsapp him a bit of a joke about the weather, he doesn’t read the message for 10 hours despite going online and doesn’t respond!

    So now 2 days later still nothing.

    I’m confused is our second date still on? Or has he blown me out?


    Kerry-Ann
    Participant
    May 16, 2016 at 8:21 pm #100564

    He is travelling he might be a little busy. Just message him the day before your second date to ask if it is still on. Some guys don’t like to text in between dates.


    Nomad651
    Participant
    May 17, 2016 at 12:41 am #100567

    Yes, I’d definitely wait until the day before then hit him back up


    Vampire_Heart
    Participant
    May 17, 2016 at 3:22 am #100576

    Maybe he just doesn’t have time to chat, or internet isn’t available. Just wait


    barbs
    Participant
    May 17, 2016 at 8:53 am #100580

    Thanks, I have to take it as a good sign that he was keen to book up our second date during our first and wanted to see me as soon as he is home from his trip.


    JD
    Participant
    May 18, 2016 at 6:54 pm #100753

    Could be a genuine reason for his delayed response, but if he doesn’t respond at least the day before your date, then personally I’d leave it alone.