He Ghosted Me Completely Unexpectedly

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He Ghosted Me Completely Unexpectedly

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    lella22
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    July 29, 2017 at 5:21 pm #143563
    He Ghosted Me Completely Unexpectedly

    Met a guy on Tinder, and we clicked instantly. After chatting every day for about a week, we went on a date. It was so fun, we were so comfortable with each other, and he treated me to dinner. Afterwards he texted me right away, saying things like “5/5 would do it again”, and “next time you get to pick the place”, so the next day I asked him if he wanted to go kayaking on Thursday. He said he would love to, and continued asking me questions and being very interested in my life up until Wednesday. That night he said he hurt his thumb, so I asked if he wanted to do something else instead, and he replied “Yes please! I would love to hang out with you!” and then proceeded to block me on instagram and snapchat (and I think phone too, because he never replied to my texts I sent in response). All day I was checking my phone waiting for a reply, and then I finally realized that is what had happened. What on earth happened? So upset because I really liked him.


    lella22
    Participant
    July 29, 2017 at 5:24 pm #143564

    Also, he was always saying things like “Omg tell me more about that on Thursday”…. It’s just so weird how suddenly this all happened


    Anonymous
    July 29, 2017 at 9:02 pm #143568

    well that guy understands female psychology, they reason why you want to have him more is because he pushed you away at that time when things were going sweet, this is advanced mind control technique. You didn’t do anything wrong, he is just making you fall in for him, he is using the technique called pull and push on you fortunately you can also employ the same on him.


    MMX7979
    Participant
    August 3, 2017 at 4:09 am #144118

    Well, I would say that he was dating another girl while dating you and made a decision to go for the other one. Online dating can be tough and I have been in this situation many times too. Nothing you can do about it – just keep on looking until you find a guy who wants you.

    Carmela
    Carmela
    Participant
    August 12, 2017 at 11:18 am #145231

    Sometimes guys ghost to get you to chase. Perhaps try engaging with him again?


    CantCY
    Participant
    August 14, 2017 at 10:52 pm #145485

    Wow if someone did that to me I’d be pissed and wouldn’t care the reason. That’s not cool.


    Naomi
    Participant
    August 20, 2017 at 1:09 pm #146197
    Reply To: He Ghosted Me Completely Unexpectedly

    Wow, I understand why you’re confused. It’s not your fault, it’s just him being immature. As hard as it is, try not to waste anymore of your precious time on this guy. Behaving like this, he’s not worth it IMHO.


    pineapplemalibu
    Participant
    August 20, 2017 at 9:46 pm #146209
    Reply To: He Ghosted Me Completely Unexpectedly

    Something very similar to this happened to me recently. It sucks, because I thought we got along amazingly. He kept talking about all the things we could do together, then suddenly ghosted.

    I agree with what MMX7979 said, he was possibly dating others and clicked better with another girl.

    yesha20
    yesha20
    Participant
    August 22, 2017 at 3:22 am #146397
    Reply To: He Ghosted Me Completely Unexpectedly

    I guess he’s dating someone else. Maybe he wanted to try if there’s any chemistry between the two of you but later he realized there’s no spark at all.