He has a girlfriend but still looks at me

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He has a girlfriend but still looks at me

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    chelsea
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    October 10, 2017 at 11:09 pm #152380
    He has a girlfriend but still looks at me

    I saw this guy almost 10 months ago in my gym. He used to loo at me all the time, in starting i found it wierd but slowly i got feelings for him without even talking to him. We used to get magnetic eye contact everytime and i felt that he liked me so much. One of his friend even told me that he talks about me that he likes the way i workout and all. I didn;t realise what he meant by that. We never talked except hi, how are you but we always have that eye contact that goes for long.He didnt have a girlfriend at that time. Few days back i couldnt control my feelings and went to him and told him that i really like him. He said he can be friends with me as he already have a girlfriend but its a long distance relationship (which is a distance of 35 km, its not long at all) so she is not around here usually.
    What does this mean i am very confused if he has a girlfriend why he always stares at me as if he likes me. Is he lying about his girlfriend or he just never liked me?


    LandOD
    Participant
    October 12, 2017 at 9:14 am #152519

    I’m sorry for saying this, but if he has a girlfriend you should step aside.
    Don’t know why is he looking at you, maybe he wants to flirt or something, but i think he doesn’t feel the same way as you. I mean he didn’t even bothered to talk to you, or get to know you, nothing. I think that’s just you.
    You could ask him why is he doing that, you have nothing to lose.
    But whatever he feels for you he is still in a relationship and you should not be the second one.


    chelsea
    Participant
    October 12, 2017 at 9:59 pm #152638

    Yes i try to ignore him now. Whenever we pass by i dont make any eye contact i just run away . I dont know if this is disrespectful as he mentioned we can be friends and now i am ignoring him.


    Clare90
    Participant
    October 14, 2017 at 11:44 am #152817

    I would ignore him also.


    emmy1
    Participant
    October 18, 2017 at 11:17 pm #153329

    Talk to him about it and ask why he’s looking at you. Be very cautious and make sure you’re not getting yourself involved with a guy who has a wandering eye. Some guys are players, some guys are with girls and it’s just not meant to be! Good luck.