He ignored my message

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He ignored my message

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    Mae
    Participant
    September 25, 2017 at 7:58 pm #150302
    He ignored my message

    So my close guy friend (I will name him A) introduced me to his friend, who I have a crush on. After four weeks, I celebrated my birthday with my A’s house where my crush also lives. The guy A called the guy I like, and we just flirted, and he kissed me. Moments later my friend A walk out and later, when I went downstairs, I saw him with bleeding mouth. Apparently, guy A and my crush had a fist fight (my crush had a concussion). The reason being is that my friend A got jealous, as I was so naive thinking he did not have feelings towards me anymore because he has a gf and he introduced us to his friend (which is my crush). They are frat bros, and somehow they talked the next day and are now okay. My problem is, I texted my crush couple days later and just told him I was sorry for how things ended up last week. He read my message right away but ignored it. I like him. and it will be almost a week that he ignored my message. It seems like he is avoiding me for his friend. Now what?


    suzyq8867
    Participant
    September 25, 2017 at 11:52 pm #150318

    Yeah I do think that’s what he’s doing. Bros before hoes (not that your a hoe). I think he’s trying to not mess with his home life because obviously your guy friend has feelings for you and is salty that that guy likes you. If I were you I would let it go and like someone else. You don’t want to come in between a friendship


    surfergirl178
    Participant
    September 26, 2017 at 4:09 am #150340

    i doubt he likes you anymore after his friend punching him. which sucks. or if he even liked you you friend basically told him to leave you alone


    Mae
    Participant
    September 26, 2017 at 11:31 am #150419

    Quick update: I am still very much close with the friend A. He broke up with his gf not too long ago because he thought that it is not right to continue knowing that he has feelings for another girl. He also understands that I cannot reciprocate his feelings. So me and my friend A are still besties, but I have not talked with my crush anymore


    opopop
    Participant
    September 28, 2017 at 2:43 pm #150763

    Yeah I do think that’s what he’s doing.


    papatinman
    Participant
    September 28, 2017 at 7:15 pm #150825

    Ye


    minime2017
    Participant
    September 28, 2017 at 11:09 pm #150844

    Yeah he definitely Is ignoring you. He isn’t worth your time.


    har7655
    Participant
    October 2, 2017 at 5:56 pm #151202

    Sorry to say it sounds like he is ignoring you – but it’s not your fault. He just doesn’t want to screw up his friendship


    feelingsotorn
    Participant
    October 3, 2017 at 2:39 pm #151301

    The way it sounds I wouldn’t bother with him….you want someone who is really into you.