He initiated, so now what?

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He initiated, so now what?

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    carol1973
    carol1973
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    January 14, 2017 at 9:45 am #123048
    He initiated, so now what?

    I gave a guy my number and he’s initiated contact twice- is it my turn, or do I wait for him to contact me. We’re supposed to get together next weekend, but in the meantime, I don’t want him to think that I’m over it or aloof. Can I text him?

    MizzKat15
    MizzKat15
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    January 14, 2017 at 7:47 pm #123063

    Hi! If he has initiated contact then yes I do believe it can be your turn to initiate or continue the conversation. It is not bad nor does it look bad to contact and initiate conversation with the guy. So yes, you can text him. Best of luck!

    richiro
    richiro
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    January 18, 2017 at 10:48 pm #123615

    you didn’t say so but i assume you responded both times.

    now that the ice is broken, it should be free flowing between you two now. dont always wait and force the guy to do everything – guys get annoyed by that and will move on from you. So… now that the icebreaking is over – it’s free flowing time. do what you feel when you feel it.

    good luck!