He lives in a house… with his ex

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He lives in a house… with his ex

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    Risa12
    Risa12
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    December 2, 2014 at 11:18 pm #68579
    He lives in a house… with his ex

    It is a 6 person house and the housing arrangements were made about 7 months before they broke-up. He broke-up with her and started dating me a month before they all moved in (but that whole month she was living on his couch because she needed a place to crash). I live an hour away so I only go up once a week to spend a night.

    Beyond feeling uncomfortable in the house, I know she is still obsessed with him because she post everything from “why don’t you love me” to “i’m going to kill myself ” on her tumblr.

    I don’t want to disturb the house, but I want to tell my boyfriend partly because I’m a spiteful person and partly because I want him to understand that I don’t like being there. I know it’s her personal blog and I am working on completely blocking it from my electronics but I am being too pushy for wanting it to stop whether I can see it or not? I’ve been on the defensive for almost 7 months and I REALLY WANT to make an offense strike though I preach being the bigger person.


    divine2014
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    December 3, 2014 at 1:01 am #68584

    totally weird..talk to your bf


    gigglesandsmiles
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    December 13, 2014 at 10:04 pm #69142

    That doesn’t seem so comforting. I would talk to your boyfriend and ask him if he’s over her. & why they are living together!?


    grandM
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    December 13, 2014 at 10:24 pm #69146

    He should move