He seems interested but might have a girlfriend?

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He seems interested but might have a girlfriend?

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    maddiewilson
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    January 2, 2015 at 10:13 pm #69816
    He seems interested but might have a girlfriend?

    I met a guy at my college’s gym who initiated a conversation with me. We see/talk to each other almost everyday He’s 29,a grad student,and I’m 19. He SEEMED to show a lot of interest in me, would remember EVERYTHING I told him, would always ask me how my midterms or papers went, would look at me for a long time and smile/laugh at everything I said. He sends me texts saying have a good day/or good luck on your midterm, etc.& hugs me when he sees me on campus. Once I told him my hands were cold and he felt them, but kept his hands there longer than necessary. He never asked me out though.
    I did some FB stalking and saw some pictures from his family member’s profile. They were of him & a girl who lives in China (I went on her profile) So it’s a long distance relationship.She visited him and his family over the summer. He’s tagged in them but they’re hidden from his profile. Is he in a relationship? how can I find out without being too direct? Why would he never bring her up?


    Lydiaheart
    Participant
    January 4, 2015 at 2:57 am #69847

    Hi Maddie, I’d tread carefully with this one! There’s a big age gap and from what you’ve seen, it definitely looks like he’s in another relationship. Some guys are just flirts, and think with the wrong head! I would ask him straight up: do you have a girlfriend? if you really must know, but my advice? There are better fish in the sea!


    sunny
    Participant
    January 4, 2015 at 10:37 am #69849

    Agree with Lydiaheart’s advice!


    Expat
    Participant
    January 5, 2015 at 1:28 am #69869

    It could just be harmless flirting. He’s never asked you out, and he’s never made a move. Maybe he never intends to. He’s in long distance relationship and enjoys the physical interaction with someone of the opposite gender that he can’t get from his girlfriend. He’s not really doing anything wrong unless he takes it farther.