Lover94ParticipantApril 9, 2017 at 7:37 pm #132674
So I started dating this guy in Jan. We immediately hit it off and started spending a lot of time together. He told me plenty of times he likes me a lot. Two weeks ago we didn’t talk as much as we usually do and I thought it was weird. We got together on Sunday and he told me he was talking to someone else. I was kinda preparing myself for it but at the same time I was stunned because he says he really likes me and even asks questions like do I think I would marry him, etc. So he knew I was a little upset and told me he would drop the other girl if I wanted to be his girlfriend. I told him he would have to show more consistency. He said we would hang the next day before I left to go out of town for my B-Day. I never heard from him and then on my bday he didn’t even wish me happy bday! I think it’s super shady because we talk everyday and were supposed to be building this bond and I just don’t get why he did all of this. What do you think? What should I do?? I really like him
mylove123ParticipantApril 9, 2017 at 9:03 pm #132677
I wouldn’t bother with it. Probably just wanted to have you around in case the other person said no. Leave it be, especially if he goes back and forth.
INeedAdvicexoxoParticipantApril 9, 2017 at 10:14 pm #132678
Let it go and move on. He’s not worth your time.
kevincarl234ParticipantApril 10, 2017 at 5:31 am #132689
Yeah sometimes some men don’t know exactly what they want in a woman …he might see what he likes most in the other person .
But I will say he just paved the way for a better person for you .
If I may ask ,how old are you ?
Lover94ParticipantApril 10, 2017 at 8:54 am #132680
Thanks! I knew I should leave him alone but just didn’t want to. I deleted his number and am gonna unfollow him on social media
itsmeliliParticipantApril 10, 2017 at 1:59 pm #132737
trust me just move on…. if u want this he would never ever tell u he is talking to someone else ! its such a no go
iamscotchParticipantApril 11, 2017 at 9:48 am #132808
Good call on deleting his number. Move on and find a better man.
loulou96ParticipantApril 13, 2017 at 7:13 am #133091
That would be enough for me to want to stop seeing him.
Arl211813ParticipantApril 17, 2017 at 9:16 pm #133475
Let it go major red flag dotnt Go there !!
sittingonthefenceParticipantApril 17, 2017 at 11:23 pm #133486
It’s really tough, but I think you should dump him. It might suck for you right now, but exactly as you say, if we was interested he would be creating a bond with you, and somehow he stopped doing it. I think it’s better to dump him now, than keep thinking he might change because then it might be even more painful for you.
bmm77ParticipantApril 18, 2017 at 10:05 am #133481
He sounds like he would be a major heartache waiting to happen if you kept trying with him. Good choice on deleting his # and unfollowing him. Definitely keep moving forward.
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