Hello guys…is this ok or am I just horny??

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Hello guys…is this ok or am I just horny??

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  • MadisonV
    MadisonV
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    November 13, 2016 at 6:12 pm #117161
    Hello guys…is this ok or am I just horny??

    I haven’t been in a relationship in over a year (which means I haven’t had sex in over a year). My co-worker and I have been flirting heavily and I am enticed BUT…I once dated his brother a very long time ago (10 years ago to be exact). Although nothing ever happened between me and his brother (we never had sex, we barely kissed) I still feel on some level that it would be unethical for me to pursue a sexual relationship with him, which is all I want. On top of that, we all work together :/ What the fuck should I do?


    emac
    Participant
    November 13, 2016 at 11:35 pm #117167

    In my experience, I’m always happier when the situation isn’t weird / dangerous. There is a legitimate risk that it could cause conflict between the two brothers, and it would likely be brought to the workplace. My thought is that you should take the firm stance on knowing this might happen, and bring it up before anything “further” happens. Sexual desire is an immediate thing — it doesn’t have long-term vision.