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    jess387
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    May 3, 2016 at 2:13 am #99556
    Help!!!!

    Yesterday would’ve been our 9 year anniversary. Our relationship started off bad because first I had an ex come into our life’s claiming that I had cheated (which I did, but never admitted to it to this day) than I find a picture of a girl on his phone and he has no explanation to it. 3 years into the relationship we decide to have a baby and purchased our first home at only 22 years old. The fighting continued even when I became pregnant a 2nd time a year later after my first baby (which he intentionally got me pregnant fearing that I would leave him, he thought that by having a baby I had to stay, which I did) the fights wouldn’t stop, things just seemed to be getting worse. He ended up getting 3 jobs and in one point he had four jobs. A year ago I find yet another picture of a different girl on his phone and he has no explanation. He tries making things right but for a whole year I kept bugging him for us to split until he had enough. Now idk what to do because I still love him.


    mjs12345
    Participant
    May 3, 2016 at 2:52 am #99558

    Think about what you really want. It may be a tough decision but in the end you have to do what’s best for you.


    jess387
    Participant
    May 4, 2016 at 3:50 am #99777

    The thing is that what I want is for us to work things out but he just doesn’t want to anymore. I begged him (something I know I shouldn’t have done) every time I would cry he would just get more mad so than I backed away. He started approaching me and now he isn’t so mad but he still doesn’t want to make things work. Couple of weeks ago I found out that he started talking to someone but I tried not to think about it cuz I figure they were just talking but today I found out that there seeing each other now. I saw her drop him off at the front of the house well they stood talking inside her truck for a while and than she dropped him off at the back and he stood inside her truck for a while longer until he came inside, I didn’t say anything because we re no longer together but it’s just breaks my heart to have to see that. I can’t wait til he leaves the house.