Help! Confused about long distance boyfriend.

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Help! Confused about long distance boyfriend.

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    girlonfire
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    March 8, 2015 at 8:01 pm #75021
    Help! Confused about long distance boyfriend.

    So about 2 months ago, my long distance bf called me and told me that he went to a bar and kissed another girl couple times the night before. He told me that he was sorry and did not think that would have happened had he not been drinking so much. Anyways, he told me he wasn’t going to do that again and that he wasn’t going to go to bars anymore. He also told me me that he will send me a music from youtube each day that reminds him of me. I told him I needed to think about it and see if he is serious about changing and will wait to see if I should get back together with him. We talk every day and I always bring up the incident. On Thursday, he got upset at me for always bringing it up at every conversation and told me that he wasn’t going to call me for the weekend. I panicked and called him back a bunch of times which made things worse and made him more upset. So he didn’t call me Friday, but he did text me Saturday twice, but I was unable to respond. He called today and was upset…


    girlonfire
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    March 8, 2015 at 8:05 pm #75022

    He called today and was upset that I didn’t respond to his texts yesterday until today in the afternoon. He said that I should have texted him this weekend apologizing and put some effort for Thursday.. I was completely confused and told him the reason why I didn’t text him was because I wanted to give him some space since he said he wasn’t going to call me. He responded and said that he is no longer going to send me songs from Youtube that remind him of me anymore. 🙁 what should I do?? any advice

    I really want to make things work with him and we have been together for a long time