Help for a slightly awkward guy.


Help for a slightly awkward guy.

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    December 6, 2017 at 9:32 pm #159311
    Help for a slightly awkward guy.

    Ok I’m a little awkward and have a hard time acting normal around girls I’m attracted to, but with girls I’m not I’m Casanova. My major issue is that I got a gorgeous young woman’s number and am trying to talk to her. She says she is super busy because the holidays and she works at the mall (where I met her). I am doing my best to try not texting too much but I want to try and solidify this connection. I only get a few messages from her a day (if I’m lucky), and I’m trying my best to not pester her or seem creepy, while at the same time trying to keep me in her mind. Am I going about this right by limiting my messages to one or two between hers (no more than 2/ 24 hour period). Or does it seem she isn’t interested anymore? I felt a solid connection when I got her number and she was heavily suggesting that I get her number when we met. I’m just confused and have no clue what to do.

    December 14, 2017 at 7:15 pm #160145

    What are her replies like? Are they dead end answers with no returning questions in them, or is she keeping a conversation going?
    If she was totally uninterested, she could easily not reply or block your number.
    I hate to sound harsh, but she could have a few guys numbers and just likes the attention of numerous guys chasing her.