HELP! What happened?


HELP! What happened?

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    August 27, 2017 at 10:37 pm #147167
    HELP! What happened?

    Date 1 was good. Date 2 was great. He’s told his family, serious about me, doesn’t want me to get away, has taken his dating profile down.


    Both excited for date 3. But he seemed completely uninterested. Asked me if I cared if he had a cigarette, no, says good I’ve been waiting 3 dates for that. Walked ahead of me. Checked to see if his zipper was down. No questions, kept asking what he should know about me. When we left I said jeez we’re going home early on a Saturday night he just laughed. He couldn’t wait to leave.

    I went home. He text & said he had a nice time. I called & said it seemed like he wasn’t interested. I asked if something changed. He said no, everything was fine. That he wanted to keep talking and hanging out. Today I got a text that said I was a nice girl, he thought it was going fine, sorry it didn’t work out the way we hoped. Asked what I did & what changed his mind from when we talked, said I didn’t want to quit. No response.

    What happened?

    September 28, 2017 at 9:37 pm #150833

    Was he in a long term relationship previous to this? Maybe he thought he was ready to move on and really isn’t? I wouldn’t jump the gun and blame yourself as more than one date happened, it may be himself. best of luck.