Helpppppp!!!! Tore between two guys?!

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Helpppppp!!!! Tore between two guys?!

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    Louie97
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    February 17, 2016 at 11:32 am #93751
    Helpppppp!!!! Tore between two guys?!

    Well…im in a serious predicament. There are two guys who openly admitted to me that they like me. But, there are several complications to this. Let’s start off with a description of Guy 1: He isn’t the most attractive, but I became attracted to the similarities we share (eg we look younger than we are, he’s a chill guy and a homebody and simple).However, at times he would be very rude and disrespectful towards me. Guy 2 on the other hand is the total opposite: He’s very attractive, likes to party(which I don’t do, never partied in my life) and im intrigued by how nice he is and that I can be myself with him. However, the problem is that he lives in another state.

    The thing is that I started talking to Guy 2 when me and Guy 1 got into a heated argument and stopped talking for a few weeks. It was during those weeks that Guy 2 opened up about his feelings for me. And just recently Guy 1 reached out to me and apologized for his behaviour. But I find that I like Guy 1…

    djames
    djames
    Participant
    February 17, 2016 at 7:54 pm #93813

    It’s much easier to admit feelings for a person who is in close proximity. Although you have butted heads with Guy 1, that’s completely normal and part of growing together. Unless you’re looking for a long distance relationship, you might want to give Guy 1 another shot. It takes a lot of courage to apologize when you’re wrong.


    Tet11
    Participant
    February 18, 2016 at 7:21 am #93826

    I’d be wary of guy one. Any long distance relationship has its tough challenges but the only way to see if it will work is to meet and and see if it’s a plausible distance or impractical for both of you.


    T3rowsfromreno
    Participant
    February 18, 2016 at 7:05 pm #93909

    It really doesn’t matter because in the end regardless of who you chose you are just going to end up heartbroken


    Louie97
    Participant
    February 22, 2016 at 10:41 am #94065

    Well put! Thank for the feedback 😀

    djames
    djames
    Participant
    February 22, 2016 at 11:56 am #94072

    You aren’t going to inevitably end up heartbroken 🙂 stay positive

    • This reply was modified 1 year, 9 months ago by djames djames.