He's cheating on his LDR with me

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He's cheating on his LDR with me

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    maddiewilson
    Participant
    August 10, 2015 at 10:03 pm #83843
    He's cheating on his LDR with me

    I’ve been friends with this guy for about a year now, and we’ve been FWB for around 2 months. I’m a 20 year old undergrad and he’s a 29 year old grad student at my university. He told me he has feelings for me, but does not want a relationship because of the age difference. Shortly after he told me this, I found out from somebody that he has actually been in an LDR with a girl in China for 3 years. I had met her one time when she came to visit, before we started hooking up, but he introduced her as his friend. Why would he lie to me about her? And do I have the right to confront him about this?

    hamadidou
    hamadidou
    Participant
    August 11, 2015 at 11:23 am #83862

    As a man, in my own point of view, I will do this for one of these reasons :
    1- I am being a jerk and want to bang while my Chinese girl is away
    2- I really and seriously love you and don’t have the balls to say it, and since I haven’t noticed any romantic behavior from you I will want (like a dumb boy) play the jealousy game with you with a fake 3 years friend or something dumb of the sort

    in any case you have perfectly well the right to ask, but since he lied once… I won’t finish, wish you good luck