He's ignoring me because i told him to be with his friends instead of me.

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He's ignoring me because i told him to be with his friends instead of me.

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    mlpaubrey
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    November 6, 2014 at 2:55 pm #67135
    He's ignoring me because i told him to be with his friends instead of me.

    So last Monday i asked my bf to hang out with me late at night, things went well and somehow we got into a “fight” because of certain things that wouldn’t happen. I assumed he was mad, but he continued to tell me that he was just really tired from work and that he missed the football game with his guys to hang out with me.. Later on that night i apologized for taking away his guy time, and that he could have simply said no to me. He blew that way out of proportion and now he hasn’t talked to me all week. Before the fight we discussed different plans we’d make for the upcoming weekend. Did i do something wrong? I’ve texted and called him everyday just to remind him that i was thinking of him, and i also I texted him asking if this was his way of telling me he didn’t want to be with me anymore, even though he told me that he loved me, but with no answer.

    Matchmaker3
    Matchmaker3
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    November 7, 2014 at 11:26 am #67180

    Hi Mlpaubrey,
    It sounds like you are going through a very tough time with your BF. It is never easy to cope with someone who refuses to communicate or blow out of proportion when you try to say something.
    I really think you have done your best and the ball is in his court now. You are absolutely guilty of nothing apart from loving him and wanting to spend time with him. How mad is that???
    I would really recommend that from now, you stop apologising and texting him as it is clearly not working. Instead, stand your ground and let him come back to you. You have done everything you could and he is the one that should come back to you apologising and explaining his unacceptable behaviour!
    Best of luck!
    Matchmaker3