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hmrwilliamsParticipantJune 21, 2014 at 6:57 pm #55859
I’ve been dating him for almost 9 months. I first noticed it a couple of months after we started dating and he had loosened up quite a bit. I noticed that sometimes he expressed his irritation with his friends to me with rude comments, and that he wasn’t always kind to those who were supposedly his friends. Now, I’m wondering if I should be worried. Should I be worried? Or am I over-reacting?
terrylParticipantJune 21, 2014 at 8:21 pm #55860
Personally I think you should be worried, or at least reconsidering whether this is the sort of guy you want to be with. If he speaks this way about close friends, how does he speak about you? It would be a mistake to think you are exempt from the attitude you have observers in him. The only question is, would it be worth it, in the end, and only you and your guy instinct can make that difficult decision. Best of luck.
hmrwilliamsParticipantJune 21, 2014 at 9:26 pm #55865
I was afraid someone would say that. Thanks for your in-put. I just hope I make the right decision…
wvudave82ParticipantJune 22, 2014 at 5:53 pm #55887
If hes rude to his friends how will he eventually treat you??
AnonymousJuly 1, 2014 at 4:37 am #56624
Yes, you should. I had the same story with my ex. He is rude to other people now but then he will start to be rude to you! Just try to talk to him first and if he will not attempt to change himself, just think what consequences could be in the future.
harley_quinnxParticipantJuly 2, 2014 at 10:26 am #56725
i think you should be worried i had a similar situation with an ex and i just ignored it and let it go and he then became comfortable enough to act like that towards me and there wasn’t much coming back from it.
erica1ParticipantJuly 7, 2014 at 6:53 am #56818
Yes you should be worried. After some time he will start being rude to you.
StevenParticipantJuly 12, 2014 at 8:16 am #57326
Even aside from the potential to treat you in the same manner, I think it reflects on his values and the way he respects others. That negative energy will at some point have an effect on you.
decentmaleParticipantJuly 12, 2014 at 10:24 am #57328
depends he is rude to which people and why he is rude? if he is rude without any fault of the other person, this is not good. he should change his behaviour.
oregongalParticipantJuly 12, 2014 at 10:36 pm #57331
I’m afraid I have to agree with the majority. Watch out for this guy. You won’t be exempt from his negative attitude and behavior.
Wiseguy22ParticipantJuly 13, 2014 at 12:34 am #57338
It’s too hard to tell without knowing the guy. How does he treat YOU? Do you know any of his ex’s? People can hide thier true selves for about 6 months or so. By that time the honeymoon state is over, and you’re most likley dealing with the real him.
If he starts getting like that with you, hopefully you’re strong enough to let him go.
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