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    1w1w1w1
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    December 25, 2012 at 11:57 pm #19453
    hey , advice needed

    I am a guy, and I had a crush on a girl, we are not in the same city and we met once but our relationship is still ambiguous. I am planning to order roses on Valentine day, and send them to her with my love letter, but I am not so confident with my words, any tips from women’s perspective?

    here is my love letter:
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    At this moment I am so haunted, I am not sure what it turns to be. But I do know one thing – I love you.
    I am not lacking confidence, but at this moment I feel I am so small, because you really mean a lot to me.
    I will wait, wait quietly and take your choice peacefully -accept my love or not.
    Because that is me, and that is my love, reckless but willing to sacrifice.
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    really, really thank you for your advice.

    abigail
    abigail
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    December 27, 2012 at 11:55 am #19501

    Honestly, ease up on the I love you’s. You’re not IN LOVE with this girl, you’re excited and probably infatuated with the fact that she’s far away and she’s simply a prize to be won. Love doesn’t happen overnight. It takes time, lots of time.

    I like that you want to send her something but geez, don’t scare her! Don’t threaten her with a “take it or leave it” approach. You started with a nice idea with the roses so just be a nice guy about it and send a cute letter, not a LOVE letter. Show her you’re interested and you want to get to know her, despite the distance.

    If it’s meant to be, it’ll happen. Don’t think that some overly done gesture will guarantee she will fall as hard as you have. She’s still a stranger to you, don’t think you really know her- you don’t. Take your time, it’s okay, she’ll like the flowers. I know I would!