His mother hates us

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His mother hates us

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    Chlo
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    January 21, 2017 at 1:14 pm #124015
    His mother hates us

    My closest friend is a guy and he wants us to be together but he says he just isn’t ready. We have talked about when we’ll say I Love You and when we’ll start hugging and holding hands. His dad has said that we have to make sure my mom approves before we do anything. His dad completely likes us being together and liking each other but his mom doesn’t like him talking to girls whatsoever. She keeps giving us death glares and I feel awkward around her but I love him too much. I know him and his dad are trying to get through to her but I don’t know if that will happen? Has anyone ever experienced this or know what to do? How fast should me and him move? He says his grandma didn’t like it but then he got through to her and now she agrees. I just don’t want to mess up his families relationship just because we want to be together. But what should we do?


    johnd_321
    Participant
    January 22, 2017 at 2:41 pm #124020

    How old are you 2?


    Chlo
    Participant
    January 23, 2017 at 4:11 pm #124171

    We are under 18. Not giving more age information.


    goldengrl
    Participant
    January 23, 2017 at 11:51 pm #124205

    How old are you two?


    Chlo
    Participant
    January 24, 2017 at 1:31 pm #124270

    We are under 18


    aguy123
    Participant
    January 27, 2017 at 4:39 pm #124812

    If you are over 16, i don’t understand why would you need an approval from his mother. I think that his mom just wants to see him as her little baby and doesn’t like the fact that he isn’t a 10y old boy anymore, maybe she fears you will take him away from her(or his family is religious and they are usually very conservative about these things).

    If you are over 16 i don’t see a reason why you couldn’t spend time together, just don’t get pregnant if you have sex, that would be really stupid at your age. He should be the one standing up for what he wants, if he needs to ask his mother or father for a permission to date someone then he isn’t mature enough for a relationship


    Chlo
    Participant
    January 28, 2017 at 10:15 am #124844

    He is asking for advice not to date.


    Chlo
    Participant
    February 1, 2017 at 12:49 pm #125332

    My closest friend is a guy and he wants us to be together but he says he just isn’t ready. We have talked about when we’ll say I Love You and when we’ll start hugging and holding hands. His dad has said that we have to make sure my mom approves before we do anything. His dad completely likes us being together and liking each other but his mom doesn’t like him talking to girls whatsoever. She keeps giving us death glares and I feel awkward around her but I love him too much. I know him and his dad are trying to get through to her but I don’t know if that will happen? Has anyone ever experienced this or know what to do? How fast should me and him move? He says his grandma didn’t like it but then he got through to her and now she agrees. I just don’t want to mess up his families relationship just because we want to be together. But what should we do?
    UPDATE: he said he loved me and i said I loved him too. He gave me a side hug and he always opens the doors for me.

    Sue315
    Sue315
    Participant
    February 2, 2017 at 7:51 am #125393

    Sounds like are too young for anything more. If you live with your parents you need their approval. Be friends,it will come with time and by then your parents will all know each other and you. You are very young.although,I realize you wont think that. Good luck.


    Chlo
    Participant
    February 23, 2017 at 11:57 am #127974
    Reply To: His mother hates us

    HELP!