His stepdad tried to commit, and my ex broke up with me without telling me why

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His stepdad tried to commit, and my ex broke up with me without telling me why

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    zhavia20
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    February 21, 2018 at 8:05 am #166078
    His stepdad tried to commit, and my ex broke up with me without telling me why

    I’ve been dating this guy for about 5 months & we are each other’s first love. We’d been living with each other in my uni accommodation for the past few months, & out of nowhere he took all his things & essentially moved out without giving any explanation. He was being very distant & wouldn’t answer any of my calls/texts. 2 weeks later he told me that his stepdad had tried to commit suicide – I was shocked & wanted to support him during this time, I tried to call/text occasionally, but I got no response. Another 2 weeks passed & I hadn’t heard from him still. At this point I’d had enough & called him on my friends phone where he angrily answered. I asked him what was going on, & he said I should’ve figured out that we had broken up. He gave me no explanation & I feel confused & hurt. It’s now been 2 weeks since that phone call, & in total over 1.5 months since he moved out. I want to be with him, but his communication is terrible which is unlike him. I have no idea what’s going on.


    zhavia20
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    February 21, 2018 at 8:09 am #166079

    * continued*

    He has some of my things which means I will be able to see him, but I don’t know when/how to ask for them back, because I really want to be with him but feel like I’m waking on eggshells. I feel like it’s an unfinished story with him – I don’t understand why he is angry with me, or why he won’t talk to me. He’s recently blocked me on social media, and in general won’t answer any calls I make on my number. I want an explanation from him, but I’m scared that by asking or even talking to him will ruin my chances of getting back with him.

    I want to know what’s going on. I want to why he’s treated me like this, because it is so unlike him.

    I want answers. How do I get through to him? Help! 🙁 x