Hitting on me or just being friendly???


Hitting on me or just being friendly???

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    March 2, 2018 at 8:38 pm #166771
    Hitting on me or just being friendly???

    My husband & I moved to a new development. I’ve bumped into one of my new neighbors (also married) 3 times over the past month or so. We are both in our 40’s. He so far always initiates it. All three occasions, I’m walking my dog, while my neighbor stops to talk to me as he’s driving by on his way out somewhere. The 1st time he stopped, we talked about our dogs. The 2nd time he stopped, he gave me some tips about the neighborhood, where we both moved here from, random stuff. The 3rd time he stopped, I was a few feet from the road, he saw me, stopped & rolled down his window, so I walked over to him. He told me he was on his way to the store, how he hates going to the store, etc. etc. other randomness, then asks me about my car (it was parked right there in front of my house) and told me he customizes cars and to let me know if I want any work done. then said, “I just wanted to stop by to say HI”. Is he Flirting or just being friendly? Just want to know if I’m still attractive to men.

    March 13, 2018 at 8:02 pm #167345

    So far it looks like he is just being really friendly. If you keep interacting with him, then you will soon know if he is flirting or he actually is being friendly.

    March 16, 2018 at 5:48 pm #167611

    do u see him stop and talk to other people before he reaches u on the road? or at other times? I think he is being just friendly enough to be invited over if the opportunity ever opens up. ( pun intended)
    …. and if you posting on “dating advice”, then …….. he might have a working strategy
    I’m gonna guess u are plenty attractive
    a guy probably wouldnt stop for a fat chick….. but he might wonder what is up with the new hottie on the block

    March 20, 2018 at 6:07 pm #167965

    be careful

    March 21, 2018 at 9:36 am #168010

    Mark888 hit on it. If he is just friendly he will act the same with everyone. But I doubt he pulls to the edge of the road for everyone he knows and sees walking down the sidewalk.

    He’s into you but it could be in a harmless way. He may just like the attention of a hot chick. You might be an interesting novelty for him.

    In any case, like Silverback93 said,…Be careful. Don’t be around him with it being just you and him,…always have your husband there, or at least his wife. In conversations with him talk about your husband a lot to show that you are really “into” your husband. Never ever criticize your husband in front of him,

    March 21, 2018 at 11:35 am #168032

    Obviously he is into you.

    March 21, 2018 at 8:58 pm #168079

    He is being friendly