Honestly, I Am Lost

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Honestly, I Am Lost

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    amirstagram
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    April 13, 2018 at 2:45 am #170414
    Honestly, I Am Lost

    Alright… here’s my story. Feel free to tune in.

    I am your typical high school student in the 11th grade, studious and all. I met this girl in 9th grade, and I just fell in love with her in first sight. This girl, this beautiful girl named Kate I just knew I’d have a future with her. In tenth grade, I knew her more and got closer. Now in 11th grade, things are just getting confusing. Over time, we have argued and such that she cried over me once.. and she came back first. I love her with all my heart, but her boyfriend in Mexico monitors her social media. I am the only one blocked on everything, and I only text her. I sit next to her everyday. She shows some signs, always sticks next to me, rides in my car sometimes.. my story is very long and it can’t fit in here. The point is that when I try to compliment her, she says “aw stop”. When I say you’re special to me, she has a very cute quiet smile. She’s not like other women. Truly quiet and mature. I just need help figuring this out.


    amirstagram
    Participant
    April 13, 2018 at 2:49 am #170415

    Continued: I bought her stuff time to time, and just recently she feels safe to drive with me to take her home. I’ve been mean to her at times but I always apologized, I could never ever leave her. And we always made up, we always felt great together. She doesn’t like it when I ask her if she loves me or what not, she says to not worry about it. She knows that she likes me from the beginning and she also knows that I am jealous of her boyfriend. She reads my phone and scans through everything occasionally, and all my texts to other people are about her in positive words. She’s been my best friend for a long time. One day, she told me that I’m not street smart, only book smart… leaving me puzzled. Her friends know that I love her, and it seems like they all have secrets together about me too. She doesn’t let me touch her, but sometimes she does. She’s so loyal and trusting and irresistible. I love her with all my heart. What can I do? I know she likes me deep in her heart… I know.


    Anonymous
    April 13, 2018 at 8:15 am #170418

    from my opinion its just attraction don’t worry about that incident it will come many in your life don’t take seriously


    silentsurfer21
    Participant
    April 13, 2018 at 11:16 am #170469

    You are young and still have plenty of time. Play it slow and be yourself.


    SomeoneBlue
    Participant
    April 14, 2018 at 7:08 am #170544

    be you my dude

    dashingscorpio
    dashingscorpio
    Participant
    April 15, 2018 at 2:16 am #170585

    You said the following:
    ” I met this girl in 9th grade, and I just fell in love with her in first sight.”
    (There’s no such thing! You’re too immature to know it though)

    “I love her with all my heart, but her boyfriend in Mexico monitors her social media. I am the only one blocked on everything.”
    (She has a boyfriend! Cleary she’s more into (him) then she is into (you) which is why you’re the only who is blocked on everything!)

    “One day, she told me that I’m not street smart, only book smart… leaving me puzzled,” (She basically said you’re not her type!)

    “She doesn’t let me touch her.” “I love her with all my heart. (Where I come from we’d call this a clue. She’s not “into you”.)

    What can I do? “I know she likes me deep in her heart… I know.” (You’re in the “friend zone”!)

    In order for (her) to be “the one” she would have to see (you) as being “the one”.
    At the very least a “soulmate” is someone who actually wants to be with you!

    Move on. Suffering is optional!


    Mr.Anonymous88
    Participant
    April 22, 2018 at 2:12 am #171352

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