Hot and cold


Hot and cold

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    December 26, 2015 at 8:00 pm #90535
    Hot and cold

    I met my bf on a dating site 4 months ago. It was great right from the start. We are not sexually active due to religious reason. His request. I’m fine with not being intimate but I feel our relationship is just a friendship and I want more. One minute he is giving hugs and kisses and the next he wont. One minute he is talking about doing things together next year then the next breath he is talking about moving to another state. Often I’ll say I miss you and he will not say anything back. I’m almost 50 and single. My kids are almost all gone and I want to get married so I just don’t want to waste my time if it’s not working. I can fall for him, but don’t know if he can for me. Do I wait or go?

    • This topic was modified 2 years, 5 months ago by  tlcchild.

    December 26, 2015 at 8:39 pm #90538

    I would tell him that you are looking for a solid commitment. If he can’t give that to you then I would say you should continue looking. For a strong relationship he needs to be as ready for the next step as you are.