Hot and cold. Did I cross a line?


Hot and cold. Did I cross a line?

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    April 25, 2018 at 11:49 am #171631
    Hot and cold. Did I cross a line?

    So I just started talking to a girl on tinder, and we have really hit it off.
    We were messaging for a long time on the Thursday we matched, and all weekend. I think she is hilarious and we both enjoyed chatting. After a while I asked when she would like to meet, she said she couldn’t until the weekend after next. She knew this was a while off, and not ideal, but said she didn’t want to start things the wrong way by commiting to a time and date she might not be able to stick too.
    We agreed that was the best way to do It, we talked a little more then I made a stupid joke about her inviting me to her bed. She didn’t respond. Around an hour later I messaged to say goodnight and she didn’t respond. The next morning I noticed she had read my messages but not replied. I messaged again yesterday and she hasn’t even read it.
    Should I wait and try again in 2-3 days? Or should I be making a genuine apology as soon as possible for my stupid joke?

    April 25, 2018 at 1:05 pm #171654

    No apology, for some reason that loses women even more. I would go ahead and try again in three days because if she responds then, then you are fine but if not it’s time to move on.