How bad is facebook?

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How bad is facebook?

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    Theeliteone
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    May 24, 2015 at 10:49 pm #79690
    How bad is facebook?

    Part 1: I’ve known this girl for almost 9 years, but we’ve never been close (we’re 18 now.) I was home schooled after elementary school, so i never really got the chance to get to know, but now we both go to the local community college, and ended up in one of the same classes and doing a lot of partner projects together. I would have asked her out at the time, but she had just got out of a bad relationship, and i didn’t think it would be right for me to ask her out. Long story short, we became sort of friends, got along better than i ever thought we would have and i developed a rather large crush on her. I think i may have a shot with this girl. Here’s the problem though, classes are over, I never got her phone number(like an idiot) and i never asked her out (like an idiot) and now the only way i can think of for getting in contact with her is facebook. I know where she works, but it is a fancy restaurant, and i think it would be appropriate for me to just show up their and ask her out


    Theeliteone
    Participant
    May 24, 2015 at 10:55 pm #79691

    Part 2: We’ve been friends on facebook for years, but had very little contact via facebook. I don’t really see her on chat either, I thought about sending her a message, something along the lines of this

    “Hey, (her name) I’ve missed seeing you on a regular basis, and i figured we could get together sometime. Let me know if your interested, (my phone number).

    Should i do that, or would it be stupid. I’ve never approached a girl via facebook and don’t know if it is bad or not.


    WTF
    Participant
    May 26, 2015 at 11:21 pm #79754

    That’s not bad. If you haven’t regularly communicated via other means, it can be a casual way to reconnect.