How do I approach this?

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How do I approach this?

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    AoristTense
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    February 26, 2018 at 10:35 pm #166492
    How do I approach this?

    I have never dated before. I am still in High School, so sorry in advance if this situation sounds really weird. The basis of my situation is that there is someone in my English class who I know likes me because she told a third party who told me. I think that I like her. However, just recently, she told the third party that “she does not know how to tell me that she likes me and is just going to have to get over me.” I do not know if this means that I should or should not find a way to talk to her. I also do not know if it would be okay for me to go out with her. I have a lot of mental problems that I am trying to deal with right now. I do not necessarily have depression, but fall into moods of apathy all the time and have some suicidal thoughts. I have never tried to kill myself and I am sure that I never will, but I think that my mental problems could be potentially emotionally damaging. I think that it might be selfish for me to be in a relationship. What does everyone else think?