How do I understand this and what should I do?

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How do I understand this and what should I do?

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    IloveBB8
    IloveBB8
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    June 27, 2016 at 5:48 pm #104145
    How do I understand this and what should I do?

    Hi everyone!
    For a while I’ve been talking with a guy from my ex-class. When we were still in class, we didn’t talk much, but we worked in groups together and had same language between us. Because I am really small, he teased me in nice way about this with other tall guys. We talked about everything and about nothing, we also flirted a little bit. He asked me a couple of times if I will be present on graduation. But nothing happened, just “Hi”. After that it got a little bit weird. We talked, but not so much as before. Then he kinda asked me out, saying that he would cladly see me in summer. I agreed of course. Now, whenever I go online, he goes offline and we don’t talk.

    I don’t know what I did wrong or how do I fix this, so please tell me.


    RainCatcher
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    June 29, 2016 at 12:14 pm #104237

    First of all, you did nothing wrong, and therefore have nothing to fix. You seem like a wonderful person, and unfortunately, not all men are going to recognize and appreciate that. He seems to have lost interest, and as hard as it is to understand, it’s best to keep moving forward. The best thing you can do is not take it personally. Men change their mind for all kinds of reasons that you have no control over. You will most definitely come across someone who will cherish you, and the attraction will be mutual. Have faith in yourself, and keep searching.