How do you know when it's time to break it off

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How do you know when it's time to break it off

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    rose115
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    April 22, 2017 at 1:54 pm #134076
    How do you know when it's time to break it off

    I’ve been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half. I’m in college working on a biology degree. He is a few years older and dropped out of college, but is going back in the Fall. Lately I just feel like our relationship has turned into more of a friendship. I still enjoy his company and he is my best friend but I don’t feel attracted to him anymore. I’m so upset because he is a great guy and I feel like I won’t find anyone that fits with me as well as he does. But I find myself feeling like I’m suffocating when he tries to kiss me. We rarely have sex…he always tries but I just have no desire. And I feel awful. I don’t know if I should stay and see if things turn around, maybe when he goes back to school? I feel like I just find his lifestyle very unattractive. He is a cook and basically just smokes and sleeps all day. It’s starting to bother me I guess since we are out of the “honeymoon” phase. I don’t want to throw everything we have away but I feel trapped. Is there any hope


    Mia500
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    April 23, 2017 at 8:36 am #134090

    When you know things have gone downhill, they can only get worse. Something you should wait it out over is an argument or disagreement between you two but you’re not even happy anymore. If you don’t have the same lifestyle, how could you grow together? Relationships are for being in love and it doesn’t sound like that’s where you are.