How does she feel about me?

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How does she feel about me?

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  • JOe Joe
    Participant
    April 16, 2017 at 9:52 am #133380
    How does she feel about me?

    Good people, I would kindly ask for your help.
    **It is a pretty long post and I would be extremely thankful for your help.**
    So here’s the deal.
    I’ve known this girl for 6 months now (we became clasmates in October). At the begining she didn’t show any particular signs of interest, we became friends and she fell in the group of friends I’m now hanging out with outside of the school. (btw, she’s a very outgoing person and always in a good mood).
    But for the past month her bahaviour with me kind of changed. So here are some examples:
    -she touches my shoulder often
    -Once 4 of us were ‘’studying’’ togehter, I went to get coffee, she joined me, then later
    -she often leans on my shoulder (e.g. I’m in the position of class sleeping position and she rests on me)
    -we also went dancing together(2 of us) to a social dance, not a club(but btw, we have danced together a couple of times as I’ve learned some moves and since she dances really well, so I asked her to practice with me ‘’my new


    soupsnakes
    Participant
    April 16, 2017 at 9:40 pm #133403

    It sounds like she may like you! Just tell her how you feel.


    JOe Joe
    Participant
    April 17, 2017 at 7:28 am #133381

    me ‘’my new moves’’
    -it happened that she exaggeratively laughed at my(not so funny jokes)
    Last week our friends celebrated birthdays. She thought of presents, which were basically funny stuff from erotic shop(even the post cards were shaped as penises haha) which really surprised me.
    So then, last week our group of friends went to a club.(nor me and her got drunk) Before that we were hanging out at a park. She leaned on me a couple of times and was also excited, that we are gonna dance later in the club(excitingly bumping her hips with mine).
    But then me and few other guys came a bit later to the club enterance. She was kind of said because ‘’we came late’’ I guess?
    Then in the club as a few of us were dancing together she didn’t really how any signs that she wants to dance with me (no looks, gestures) and I kind of didn’t want to either then, since she is an awesome dancer dancing by her own.
    Then she moved to another part of the club and danced there. I later went to the bathroom


    JOe Joe
    Participant
    April 17, 2017 at 7:33 am #133382

    ‘’my new moves’’
    -it happened that she exaggeratively laughed at my(not so funny jokes)
    Last week our friends celebrated birthdays. She thought of presents, which were basically funny stuff from erotic shop(even the post cards were shaped as penises haha) which really surprised me.
    So then, last week our group of friends went to a club.(nor me and her got drunk) Before that we were hanging out at a park. She leaned on me a couple of times and was also excited, that we are gonna dance later in the club(excitingly bumping her hips with mine).
    But then me and few other guys came a bit later to the club enterance. She was kind of said because ‘’we came late’’ I guess?
    Then in the club as a few of us were dancing together she didn’t really how any signs that she wants to dance with me (no looks, gestures) and I kind of didn’t want to either then, since she is an awesome dancer dancing by her own.
    Then she moved to another part of the club and danced there. I later went to the bathroom


    JOe Joe
    Participant
    April 17, 2017 at 7:33 am #133383

    bathroom and then saw her dancing with a guy(random one, from the club). She then went with him to the room of the club where you can chat. That’s where I saw her last that night, as I went home after.
    So I’m wondering now, have I fucked up?, what does she want from me? and am I in the friend zone now?


    JOe Joe
    Participant
    April 17, 2017 at 7:33 am #133384

    ‘’my new moves’’
    -it happened that she exaggeratively laughed at my(not so funny jokes)
    Last week our friends celebrated birthdays. She thought of presents, which were basically funny stuff from erotic shop(even the post cards were shaped as penises haha) which really surprised me.
    So then, last week our group of friends went to a club.(nor me and her got drunk) Before that we were hanging out at a park. She leaned on me a couple of times and was also excited, that we are gonna dance later in the club(excitingly bumping her hips with mine).
    But then me and few other guys came a bit later to the club enterance. She was kind of said because ‘’we came late’’ I guess?
    Then in the club as a few of us were dancing together she didn’t really how any signs that she wants to dance with me (no looks, gestures) and I kind of didn’t want to either then, since she is an awesome dancer dancing by her own.
    Then she moved to another part of the club and danced there. I later


    JOe Joe
    Participant
    April 17, 2017 at 7:33 am #133385

    I later went to the bathroom and then saw her dancing with a guy(random one, from the club). She then went with him to the room of the club where you can chat. That’s where I saw her last that night, as I went home after.
    So I’m wondering now, have I fucked up?, what does she want from me? and am I in the friend zone now?


    Remjos
    Participant
    April 17, 2017 at 10:01 am #133442

    You should do the same thing, just go dance with another girl in the club too and go talk or dance or whatever. It might sound stupid, but this makes clear to her you are looking for a partner. She might ask you about it and then suddenly you guys are talking about what type of girl you want in life.


    Nathan1993
    Participant
    April 18, 2017 at 7:13 am #133494

    You should do the same thing, just go dance with another girl in the club too and go talk or dance or whatever. It might sound stupid, but this makes clear to her you are looking for a partner. She might ask you about it and then suddenly you guys are talking about what type of girl you want in life.


    PeterArnold
    Participant
    April 18, 2017 at 10:01 am #133471

    She may like you bro