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    gatasucia
    Participant
    December 10, 2016 at 11:32 pm #119699
    how often to check messages

    I’ve been exchanging messages with someone a few days. But the last three days I’ve been a little busy with life and by the time I have free time for myself, I’m pretty tired and can’t be bothered to login to my online dating account.
    I start getting tons of messages in my inbox as soon as I log in and it is exhausting going through them all.
    Does it matter that I dont check in for a few days? I think the site shows my activity and my last log in.


    BlunderBuss
    Participant
    December 11, 2016 at 10:27 pm #119718

    As a guy, seeing that a girl that I’ve been talking to has been online but hasn’t said anything wouldn’t bother me unless I sent you a message and you never responded. Then I would assume you’re ignoring me, but even then that’s a little paranoid. So basically don’t worry about it. People have lives. If he can’t accept that you can’t sit down and have lengthy discussions on a dating app every night, then he’s probably overly needy. Don’t worry about it. Unless, again, he’s sent you a message and you haven’t responded. Then get back to him.


    josephddiazz
    Participant
    December 13, 2016 at 11:33 am #119959

    Don’t worry about it!

    Everyone can understand that someone has a busy life and that every now and then you missed a couple of messages in your online dating profile. What I would suggest is to keep track of those conversations with people you do like!


    Anonymous
    December 14, 2016 at 7:31 am #120065

    I usually check messages 2 times a day and more often in case I am activelly texting with someone ( usually at http://www.asiandate.com/ ). When someone missed my message, I never minded. But I’ve been ever blocked by a user for a couple of times when I didn’t reply on time, lol.