how often to text/call?

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how often to text/call?

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    chrontar
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    February 12, 2014 at 7:51 pm #47675
    how often to text/call?

    I met a girl at a party a few weeks ago. I got her number from my friend and we made a date. We went out and it went well. She wanted to get together the next night, which we did. After the 2nd date, which also went well, she wanted me to text her when I got home, which I did. She texted me the next day as well, just to see how it was going. Her texts were full of smileys and exclamation marks, making me think that shes into me. Its been a week since ive seen her last, and her texting has slowed quite a bit, and are much less enthusiastic. Long story short, how often should I be texting or calling her. I don’t want her to think im not interested, but I also don’t want to push her away.


    chrontar
    Participant
    February 13, 2014 at 8:22 pm #47770

    Well, its not happening anymore. She said she felt like she was “out of sight out of mind” But that wasent the case at all. I thought about her all the time, I just didnt want to make her feel smothered by calling or texting all the time. She said she felt a connection when she was with me, but not when we were apart. How the hell do I manage to do that without smothering someone? Flippin women.

    swancman
    swancman
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    February 16, 2014 at 2:28 pm #47878

    Women can be pretty ridiculous: they want us to know what they want without telling us what they want. At some point men must have been telepaths and we lost that ability, lol. Anyways, if you feel concerned about her I suggest skipping the texting and just call her; hearing your voice and how much you care about her might be what you need to change things around. Talk with each other and discuss what times it would be appropriate to call or text each other. A relationship is only good when the communication is good.


    juliette
    Participant
    February 17, 2014 at 8:16 am #47891

    when she texts you I would call her back and talk on the phone.


    obrien
    Participant
    April 11, 2014 at 5:58 pm #47772

    Well this girl and I text either daily or every other day. So there you go


    Kayla
    Participant
    April 11, 2014 at 5:59 pm #47769

    Don’t wait for her to text or call you first. Just text her when you want don’t think too much