AvalancheParticipantMarch 30, 2017 at 5:10 pm #131672
Help me with the approaching!
Hi guys, I need your help with this one. There is girl in my college, we dont have any classes together. When I see her, I always catch her looking at me. Now I want to approach her, but I just dont know how. Sometimes we meet on the corridor, or we travel in the elevator, but we dont say hello, since we barely know each other.
She is beautiful and confident, and I just dont want to mess anything up if I approach her. I was advised to initiate a talk, to comment on some random stuff or just to ask something, but for me it is wierd, and the situation is also not comfortable to ask something just from all the sudden. I have no idea what to say, how to initiate anything, in order not to make myself look like a psycho yet to get closer to her.
What do you say guys, girls?
DragonrollParticipantMarch 30, 2017 at 6:48 pm #131680
if she’s confident, you can let her do all the work. We ladies love talking if you get us going on a topic we’re passionate about. The thing is, if you’re shy or awkward but you pretend to be one of the confident ones, it usually backfires. You have to let her know you’re shy and trying to start up a conversation, but you can’t take yourself too serious. For example, you see her in the elevator and say “marvel movies, ice cream, and jenga” and she’ll be like “what?” and you say “That’s my awkward way of starting up conversation with you… I enjoy marvel movies, ice cream and jenga. Your turn” and then add follow up questions on at least one of her interests cuz you’re both into it or it’s something new to you or that surprised you about her. Or “Hey could I get your opinion on something? there’s this girl in my class named You and she seems pretty cool but i’m shy when it comes to meeting new people… how should I go about starting a conversation with her slash you?” *boyish smile*
petrwohankaParticipantApril 7, 2017 at 5:12 am #132440
Don’t be afraid and go for it. Good luck to you.
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