How soon can I ask him for a date (soon running out of time)?!

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How soon can I ask him for a date (soon running out of time)?!

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    Naomi
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    August 25, 2017 at 6:48 pm #147107
    How soon can I ask him for a date (soon running out of time)?!

    I posted another thread here about the same guy, but the situation has changed so I wanted to create a new one. Long story short, I have a crush on a guy who’s leaving town in ten days… We have been small talking and flirting all summer, but due to my work situation (i’m a shop assistant and he’s a customer) things have been difficult. So I was out walking the other day, and he was out driving and stopped the car to say hi. We ended up talking for quite some time, but then he had to leave because he was working. Before we parted ways, he asked if I had facebook, and I got his name so I could add him. I mustered up the courage to ask him if he would like go for a hike one day, and he replied that he would, and said “just let me know when you’re free”. To not act too desperate, I waited to add him until next day, and he immediately accepted. Neither of us has written anything to the other one yet. Btw, his relationship staus doesn’t show (hopefully means he’s single?). Continues..


    Naomi
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    August 25, 2017 at 6:49 pm #147108

    So, how soon can I ask him to join me for that hike? Normally, I would happily play it cool and wait for a few days, but that doesn’t really work, as he’s leaving soon. I don’t want to wait until the last couple of days, in case we have a good time. I was wondering if I could ask him to join me for a little walk tomorrow after I’ve finished my shift. Is it best to ask in the morning or to just send him a message spontaneously? And is it odd to ask him on a Saturday evening? Ideally, day time would be better and more casual, but we’re both working all the time. Please, your thoughts on this are greatly appreciated!!

    DarthVader
    DarthVader
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    September 6, 2017 at 8:47 am #148117

    The quicker the better. And in any place.

    Waiting is just a waste of time.